obligatory "bro you wrote so much, I'm answering your title before taking the time to read your story"
There are so many possible interpretations of your question, that I am honestly onlly going to beg one word: why must you tell all your children the same opinion, simultaneously?
maybe I'll finish reading your story within the ten minutes edit window
ok firstly, I'm not gonna tell you how to raise your kids... even this one question seems rather late in the process, so any advice I might have would need much more context about them, and your post is mostly about yourself.
secondly, your story doesn't seem to have a large anonymity set; consider whether one of your kids might actually find out by reading SN, and then wonder why they found out that way...
finally, keep on praying; even if you call it something else, and expect no reply, because there are lots of children and so little Time for anyone to listen.
obligatory "bro you wrote so much, I'm answering your title before taking the time to read your story"
There are so many possible interpretations of your question, that I am honestly onlly going to beg one word: why must you tell all your children the same opinion, simultaneously?
maybe I'll finish reading your story within the ten minutes edit windowok firstly, I'm not gonna tell you how to raise your kids... even this one question seems rather late in the process, so any advice I might have would need much more context about them, and your post is mostly about yourself.
secondly, your story doesn't seem to have a large anonymity set; consider whether one of your kids might actually find out by reading SN, and then wonder why they found out that way...
finally, keep on praying; even if you call it something else, and expect no reply, because there are lots of children and so little Time for anyone to listen.