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Recently, I have been concerned about not introducing Chinese expressions to the son. However, if I zoom out and adopt a holistic perspective, actually the most important thing I should do for him is to impart sound money habits.

That is what I did this morning. My wallet has been bleeding dry because I need to give him $2 every day. To make my efforts more impactful, I got him to count the number of $2 dollar notes he had accumulated. This is an authentic way of getting him to learn the 2-times table.

After that, I got him to give me $10 so that I could top up his savings account. Getting him to put aside money for a rainy day should be a paramount cornerstone of his financial philosophy.

In the end, before we left the house, he asked me to explain the concept of investing. I commended his inquisitive nature and explained how sound investing makes our money multiply. To sum up, I hope that he will spend prudently, save consistently, and invest savvily.

I’m not having kids so I can’t show them how much they cost me

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may I ask what makes you so sure?

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A reasonable choice. No kids, no cost. But as far as analysis you're leaving out benefit. Put your way that'd be, "I'm not having kids so I can't show them how much they benefitted me."

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25 sats \ 1 reply \ @Oxy 10 May

Spend less than you earn, save the difference, invest wisely.

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timeless tips. thanks

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before bitty was an option, my mom set me up with good habits by encouraging me to immediately transfer 20% of every paycheck to savings account.

adapting that habit to bitcoin was a cinch

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yup for sure. internalise habits to form a robust system

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46 sats \ 1 reply \ @Lux 9 May

teach him budgeting

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thanks for the pro tip. I think I will start with teaching him the word today!

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141 sats \ 1 reply \ @unboiled 9 May

I'd recommend teaching giving too.

My parents didn't teach me about that, only about spending wisely and saving. But once I started learning about giving and made it a habit, it did a lot for me.

Not in a woo-woo, "good things happen to those who give" sense. Rather along the lines of appreciating that there are always others having a tougher time. And even a little can go a long way for them.

An important step was learning to choose a cause I want to support, not taking shortcuts such as gifting to those with better marketing budgets or higher visibility.

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well said!

I will have to work on giving more and on a consistent basis myself. I still fall prey to a miser mentality and feel that I don’t have enough

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25 sats \ 1 reply \ @brave 9 May

Teaching them to count the money + save is genius. Real-life math beats worksheets any day.

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sensei is GOAT

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